In a heartwarming episode of Obinna Show Live, host Oga Obinna sits down with Eric and Sarah Thuku, affectionately known as The Thukus. Titled “What Makes The Thukus’ Love Story So Different?”, the episode delves into the unique elements that have sustained their relationship for over two decades, offering viewers a blend of inspiration, practical wisdom, and real-life lessons on love and partnership.
A Meeting Rooted in Faith
The Thukus’ story starts in a place of shared values: church. Eric (also referred to as Dominic) and Sarah (Purity) first crossed paths in a church community, where Sarah was actively involved in praise and worship, and Eric was a newcomer drawn to the group’s energy. For two years, they were acquaintances in the same space, with Eric admiring Sarah’s dedication from afar. It wasn’t until a mutual church member encouraged Eric to join their group that their connection deepened.
Their courtship was intentional and faith-centered. Before officially dating, they spent time praying and fasting together, seeking divine guidance. Eric recalls writing a poem for Sarah during one of her trips, marking the start of more personal communication. By their third date, Eric had already expressed his intention to marry her, emphasizing that their relationship was purpose-driven from the outset. This deliberate approach, free from casual flings, sets their story apart—rooted not in fleeting romance but in a shared vision for a lifelong commitment.
Interestingly, Eric didn’t propose traditionally before their wedding, which Sarah later highlighted as a missed romantic milestone. To make amends, he proposed multiple times post-marriage, complete with rings, showcasing their ability to evolve and nurture their bond over time.
Overcoming Challenges
What truly differentiates The Thukus‘ love story is their resilience through adversity. They openly share their “humble beginnings,” starting their marriage with virtually nothing. Financial hardships were a constant, with the couple recalling times when they were “so broke that even the broke called them broke.” They hustled through various side gigs, including selling popcorn, collecting garbage, and other odd jobs to make ends meet.
Key low points included job losses—Eric was fired from a part-time lecturing position at MKU, and Sarah quit her job to pursue insurance sales. They faced debt, uncertainty, and even a humiliating supermarket incident where they couldn’t afford groceries using reward points. Yet, these trials became turning points. Through faith, they trusted in “God’s multiplying grace,” which they credit for transforming their struggles into entrepreneurial success. Sarah draws from Ecclesiastes to remind viewers that life is seasonal, with valleys giving way to mountains.
Eric’s background from a broken family added another layer of challenge; he entered marriage with skepticism and without strong role models. However, their shared faith and mutual support helped them navigate these issues, turning potential pitfalls into strengths.
Love, Respect, and God
At the core of what makes The Thukus’ story unique is their emphasis on faith as the foundation of love. Sarah asserts that true love stems from God, quoting “God is love,” and advises couples to love their partners for who they are, not for material gains. Eric complements this by noting that love is a daily decision, not just an emotion—especially after the wedding when realities set in. “It’s easy to marry someone you love,” he says, “but loving the one you married takes intentional work.”
Mutual respect shines through in their dynamic. They avoided premarital intimacy by mutual agreement, focusing instead on building emotional and spiritual intimacy. This pact, they explain, preserved trust and set a strong precedent for their union. Their advice extends to young people: don’t rush into relationships without purpose, and prioritize community support from church and family, as seen in their own wedding planning.
Giving Back to Couples and Families
Beyond their personal tale, The Thukus have turned their experiences into a mission. As marriage coaches, they mentor other couples, helping them stay united, overcome challenges, and foster happy homes. Their story isn’t just about survival—it’s about thriving and paying it forward. They encourage women not to overemphasize financial contributions during wedding processes, stressing that genuine unity invites divine blessings.
In the episode, Oga Obinna facilitates an engaging conversation filled with laughter, vulnerability, and encouragement. The Thukus’ authenticity resonates, proving that what makes their love different is its unyielding anchor in faith, intentionality, and resilience.
Why Their Story Resonates Today
In an era of quick divorces and superficial connections, The Thukus offer a refreshing narrative: love that endures through broke seasons, job losses, and personal doubts. Their journey from church acquaintances to marriage mentors underscores that true partnership is built on decisions, not just destiny. For anyone seeking to build a lasting relationship, this episode is a must-watch, packed with real lessons on faith, love, and mutual respect.
